Lake of the Ozarks Parent's Retreat

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Lake of the Ozarks, Lincoln, Missouri
Application Open from January 6, 2025 to January 12, 2025

TAPS, in partnership with Operation Barbecue Relief (Camp OBR), invites you to join with other parents who are more than six months from their loss for five days at Missouri's Lake of the Ozarks for a time of fellowship, adventure, and a culinary experience.

 

TAPS Survivors on Lake of the Ozarks

Montana Parents Retreat

Operation BBQ Archery

Operation BBQ Food Prep

 

OVERVIEW

The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Join us at Camp OBR, to meet fellow surviving parents, where you can connect with yourself, your loved one and others who understand. Through daily outdoor activities, we will create new bonds, start new memories and honor our loved ones. Please note, this is a barbeque meat preparation/cooking and consumption experience.

Who should attend? Due to the unique nature of this event, this TAPS Parent's Retreat is intended for those surviving parents whose loss occurred more than six months ago. If you are within the first six months following your loss, we encourage you to attend a TAPS Togethers, Regional Seminar and/or the National Military Survivor Seminar.

 

SCHEDULE

Wednesday, April 23:  Travel day.  Survivors arriving at the airport will be shuttled to Camp OBR based on individual flight arrival times. Everyone should arrive at the event location before 5 p.m. TAPS staff will be there to greet you and get you checked in. We’ll have an opportunity to get settled in, meet fellow survivors, enjoy dinner together, get an overview of what to expect, and relax.  

Thursday, April 24  to Saturday, April 26:   Each day will be filled with opportunities to develop coping skills, share experiences, and build peer connections. Activities, including farm-to-table culinary experiences, hiking, boating and watersports, archery, ATV riding, and more will be available. There will also be individual time to reflect on new experiences and connections, and your next journeys ahead. 

Sunday, April 27:  Departure day.  For survivors departing from the airport, shuttles will be scheduled based on individual flight departure times.

 

ADVENTURE LEVEL

This retreat is rated as a moderate-intensity adventure. We'll be active and everyone will have an opportunity to challenge themselves. Activities will involve moderate physical exertion. Much of our time will be spent outdoors. There will also be time to relax and connect with one another.

 

EVENT FEES

All trip fees from arrival to departure are covered by TAPS thanks to our generous donors. 

Trip fees not noted above are your pre/post retreat transportation costs, meals outside of events, etc.

 

LODGING AND TRANSPORTATION

Thanks to our generous donors, lodging will be provided, at  Camp OBR, for all attendees from Wednesday to Sunday. You'll share a room with other event attendees, but will have your own bed. 

If driving, you will need to cover the cost of your transportation to and from Lincoln, Missouri.  If you are flying in, a shuttle will be provided from and back to the Kansas City International Airport (MCI) in Kansas City, Missouri.  Please do not make travel arrangements until you receive a welcome email after being invited to register.

 

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

Before you submit your application, we encourage you to take time to review potential travel (air and vehicle) costs, possible time off work, child care, and so on before submitting your application. 

Meals: All meals are included while at the event. Accommodations can be made for food allergies and dietary requirements. 

Animals: Camp OBR is service dog friendly; however this retreat location is not suitable for emotional support animals. If you have any questions please contact adultprograms@taps.org

Firearms and Guns: Are prohibited at Camp OBR without prior written permission from Camp OBR personnel. All approved firearms and guns must be kept in the Camp OBR gun safe. Firearms and guns can not be stored in or on personal vehicles. Firearms and guns will not be used during this event. Firearms and guns are not permitted in any Camp OBR residences, rooms, tents, nor anywhere else on Camp OBR grounds except specifically designated areas. If you have any questions please contact adultprograms@taps.org

 

APPLICATION DETAILS

Applications will open on January 6, 2024 (look for the blue button at the top of this page) and will close January 12, 2024

TAPS will review applications, giving first consideration for those who have never attended this or any other TAPS retreat, in order for the greatest number of survivors to have an opportunity to attend. Thank you for your understanding. 

If you have any questions, please email adultprograms@taps.org or call 800-959-TAPS (8277).

 

Retreat Facilitators


 

Jon Ganues

Jon Ganues

Jon is Manager of TAPS Men's Program, managing all aspects of event planning and coordination. Jon provides a safe space for grieving men to share their stories, connect and support each other, and find ways forward in their unique journeys, building relationships among the surviving community to deepen the foundation of support for male military survivors. Jon serves on the Virginia Military Advisory Council, exploring issues impacting quality of life for service members and their families, relations between the installations and surrounding civilian communities, as well as effects of encroachment. Jon served on the Department of the Air Force 2022 to 2024 Survivor Advocacy Council, which served as a forum for the Air Force and Space Force to champion survivor programs. He is a former TAPS Peer Mentor and was the 2019 Peer Mentor of the Year. Jon is a retired U.S. Army Warrant Officer with 21 years of active-duty service, with experience in logistics and information technology. He is a lifetime member of the U.S. Army Warrant Officers Association, and he is a lifetime honorary member of the Board of Directors for Henrico County Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA). Jon holds a bachelor’s degree in business administration with information and technology from Colorado Technical University. Through his work at TAPS, Jon honors the memory of his son, Airman First Class Jon Wesley Ganues, Jr., U.S. Air Force, who died by suicide on June 2, 2009.


 

Erin Jacobson

 

Terri Jones

Terri Jones initially came to TAPS seeking support for herself and her two surviving children after her son, Specialist Jason Cooper, U.S. Army, died by suicide in 2005. Terri’s service at TAPS began through volunteering as a Peer Mentor when she felt ready to support another grieving military survivor. She joined the Survivor Care Team in 2013 and earned her current role in 2019. As the Manager of the Survivor Care Team, she provides compassionate outreach to fellow suicide-loss parents and assists the Survivor Care Team as they support military and veteran survivors of all types of loss. Terri has earned a Death and Grief Studies Certification through the Center of Loss and Life Transition.


 

Diane Lesko

 

Diane Lesko

Diane Lesko is a dedicated member of the Survivor Care Team at TAPS, where she provides outreach and support to surviving mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, and aunts. As a co-facilitator of the Moms Mentoring Moms and Moms Mentoring Moms, New to Grief groups, Diane creates a safe and nurturing environment for mothers to share their stories, honor their children, and navigate their grief journeys together. After a long career as a social worker, Diane’s life took a profound turn following the suicide of her oldest son, PO2 Jonathan Lesko, U.S. Navy, in 2013. This heartbreaking loss led her to seek a new path— one centered around supporting others who have experienced similar tragedies. Diane began her journey with TAPS as a volunteer Peer Mentor, where she found purpose in helping others through the pain of a military loss. In 2017, she transitioned to staff, working on the National Military Survivor Helpline and, in 2020, joined the Survivor Care Team. Diane holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Gerontology and a Master’s in Counseling the Aging from the University of Bridgeport. Her work with TAPS honors the memory of her son Jonathan, and she finds comfort in knowing that his spirit continues to guide her work, providing solace and care to other grieving mothers.


 

Diane Moir

 

Diane Moir

Diane Moir serves as the Coordinator for TAPS Togethers, a program that unites military survivors through local gatherings designed to provide support, foster peer connections, and inspire healing. She also co-facilitates monthly Online Groups for Surviving Parents and Moms. After the sudden loss of her son, Cpl. Craig Michael Moir, USMC, in August 2016, Diane found strength and support through TAPS. Over time, she became a Peer Mentor, allowing her to walk alongside other parents and support them in their grief journeys. Diane’s experiences with grief and resilience have been shaped by her personal journey through significant challenges, including the loss of her son, surviving cancer, providing direct care for a family member undergoing a liver transplant complicated by addiction and complex medical needs, and witnessing trauma firsthand in an inner-city hospital Emergency Department. These profound experiences have instilled in her a deep appreciation for the healing power of peer connection and storytelling, which she believes help survivors rediscover themselves and restore balance. Inspired by her son Craig’s memory, Diane joined the TAPS staff in 2023. Her role allows her to continue bringing compassion and purpose to her work as she supports other parents and families in finding hope, healing, and renewal.